when the mother, who you are not married to, of one or more of your children starts negatively interferring with your life, especially where other women are concerned; consists frequently of open public displays of anger and loud verbal assaults, hand gestures, head-shaking, etc.; The goal is to cause the father embarrassment either in front of his new lady friend, his close male friends, or his immediate family; it provides the baby mama a brief feeling of control in a situation where she typically has none as a struggling single mom.
"Man I was at the club hangin' with this fine thick sista that I'm seein' now, when that bitch popped up droppin' all kinda baby mama drama about needin' diaper money for my son and shit!"
Babymamadrama is any action, talk or emotion revolving around overly involved mothers and their kids. These are mothers who LIVE completely for their children, are defined by their motherhood, but exact a price - they demand a level of attachment and almost lover-like relationship from their kids.
That Jocasta, Queen of Thebes! She has her son, Oedipus, kill her husband then marries the boy!! What a bunch of babymamadrama!!
This is when the women doesn't conform to current eviromental standards. She is in the dark on the whether to choose baby einstein or one of the current reading programs. She also may not be aware of her english grammer skills or how to properly be a mother.
example: OMG you just showed my baby a flash card of an elephant! He can't be seein pictures of big things. my baby oh oh my baby you best be bettin i be getting u ass!!! ohhhhh ohhhhhhh f*** Y** babys daddy ! u got "baby mama drama"