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Male: Used to describe someone who is incredibly pretentious and full of themself. He is a douchebag and will die with the person he loves most; himself.

Female: A beautiful woman who is funny, outgoing, and intelligent. She is full of swagger.
I hate that guy.
Who? James?
Yeah. He's such a Vandermey.
by God's Conscience March 05, 2010