T&D means Tease and Denial. "Teasing" a guy to the edge edging, the point of no return and "Denying" him orgasm.
The Cupcake Party was strictly CFNM where Clothed Females enjoyed T&D with a Naked Male all night long.
by Nekky Monty May 16, 2008
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Tits and dick, like T&A but for fat guys not girls.
Did you see the T&D on that 400 pound monster?!?!?
by Why are all of the names taken March 15, 2009
the act of having multiple orgasms. T&D stands for 'total desire' and 'thanx dude'
It was a T&D night
by Bruce January 28, 2004