A queer/bender refers to a homosexual.
(Bender not to be associated with the cartoon from Futurama)
Guy 2: Yeah, I wish there were a word to describe what an absolute Queer slash Bender he is.
Guy1:FUCKING HELL he's a Quender!
Guy2:Yes...yes he is.
I like a drink I do.....
"I do fancy it!"