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When something happens to you that is considered by many to be an extremely rude breach of social standard. This includes getting dissed, getting slapped, being swiftly rejected by a girl you've been making advances on, when someone or something causes unnecessary hardship, or even being ignored my your mum. In short, it is getting demoralised. Hard.

The term was popularised by London rapper Tempa-T, with his song 'Next Hype'.

It is possible that Par is a derivative of the term Faux Pas, which in french literally means a 'False Step' against the established norm.
1.
Ricky: Yo gal you lookin kinda nice tonight, mind if i get you a drink?
Girl: Errr...get out of my face, don't talk to me. I think you need some aquafresh as well, cos your breath is kickin! Dem trainers aint real either.
Ricky's mate: Ricky Bruv, you just got parred.

2.

Ricky: Eh Mum! What you cookin' tonight? Smells taaassty!!!
(no response)
Ricky: Mum...Mum?! Ah allow it.
Ricky's mate: Ricky bruv, you just got parred, by your own mum.

3.

Tempa-T: I SAY GET OUT DA CAR!
Ricky: Ah allow it..
Ricky's mate: Par.

4.
Ricky's mum: Ricky, go shops and get me a coke and some skittles. Maybe some skips as well. Fuck it, i'll right you a list.

Ricky: Where is it?

Ricky's mum: 'Bout half hour away, if you hop on a bus.
Ricky: Mum, i aint got money for the bus.

Ricky's mum: Walk then.

Ricky: Ah allow it, thats long
Ricky's mate: Ricky Bruv, you keep gettin' parred.
by RickyRankin' April 15, 2010
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When something bad happens to you or your being ignored
Person 1: You just missed the bus!
Person 2: Thats a par!
by Im Jus Doin Me November 07, 2007
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Slang. When a person is insulted or dissed it means they have been parred.
Richard: What time is it?
John: Time to fuck your mum.
Kenny: Eeey blud dat's a par!
by Downtown Wtf October 02, 2009
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Basically a diss. When someone disses you, they par you.
Guy: I bet your pussy has spots.
Guy 2: Ohhh you just got parred!

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Girl: He doesn't like you. He says your hair is bad.
Girl 2: Ahh that's a par.
by newsensationxo October 05, 2009
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Person 1: He said we should go to his house
Person 2: Kmt, That's a PAR man.
by MeeDotDizzle June 25, 2008
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It's means the say as boyed or shame

It's normally used in a sentence...
Boy1: I failed the math test

Boy2: Bruv, that's a par
by sbwild88 February 15, 2010
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to par with someone means to hang around with them. for example you par with your close bredrins. who you associate yourself with.
" nah fam, last week i was parrin with those boys from N1"

"I par with my close friends and smoke weed"
by Lord Sinista October 28, 2005
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