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An ODer is short for Online Dater, which means two people are dating in online games, media, etc. without knowing them in real life. ODers are most mentioned in Roblox a lot, and sometimes people even troll ODers while recording, to put it on Youtube. ODers get called out a lot, becuase you actually never know who you date, then the ODer will start running away, ragequit, or get defensive, which the ODer hater will win a lot.
"iiOmqBlazin: Hey, you single?"
"iiOmqItz_Kyli: Yeah."
"iiOmqBlazin: Wanna d8?"
"iiOmqItz_Kyli: <3"
10 Minutes Later...
iiOmqBlazin and iOmqItz_Kyli getting it on in a virtual game. (smh)
ODer hater walks in.
"Areomy: wtf you kids doing your like 11 you have to date on a virtual game cause you can't get someone irl."
"iiOmqBlazin: shut up freaking ###### ### ###### no one likes you noob"
"Areomy: no wonder why you're adopted."
*iiOmqBlazin has left the Server.*
*iiOmqItz_Kyli has left the Server.*
ODer by dizzyhelper July 5, 2017
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Mr Odgers 

A god among men. If you anger Mr Odgers he will smite you. Respect his drip.
"Did you see Mr Odgers? He killed Mateen."
Mr Odgers by Xander Boi March 16, 2020
A person online who dates(mostly on a virtual game called roblox) most of them are people that are to afraid that they will get rejected if they ask someone out in real life . Mostly are at an age range from 7-15 and wear popular items that other Oders might like. Most of them have robux because they want to buy items that might make them look attractive.
xxcoolhotboy123xx: Hey cutie wanna be my gf?
hotgirl1234: Ok
Bruhishangellit: ewww we have some ODers Here
hotgirl1234: Shut up your just jealous that you dont have a lover,nubs xD
FIREPENIX2233: EWWW ODers xD
xxcoolhotboy123xx: SHUT UP!!! NUBS!!!
xxcoolhotboy123xx lets go babe and leave this nubs alone
hotgirl1234: Ok babe
ODer by lemoniskewel August 5, 2017

ROBLOXian ODer 

A Roblox user, usually ranging from ages 5-14, who date online, hence the term ODer. They're known for a couple of things.

1) Wearing virtual gear that makes them look "Attractive" to other OD'ers. Some of these items include, but aren't limited to, Beautiful Hair For Beautiful people, avatar body packages that looks realistic (or makes your avatar look muscular), skater hats, brown charmer hair, and faces like Shiny Tooth, Awkward, Braces, Mr. Chuckles, and the faces from the Roblox 3.0 body packages

2) Playing games that involve roleplay, such as Roblox High School, Life In Paradise, and Meep City, just to name a few. This is because many OD'ers play games like these, meet other OD'ers, and can get into "relationships" outside of just the roleplay

3) Insulting people who report them for online dating or tell them that Roblox wasn't made for online dating, they usually use terms like "nub"

4) Using stupid language like "bae" when talking to other OD'ers
xXx_CoolHotDude555: Hey girl, wanna be my bae?

PinkTheHottest9401: Sure! How can I say no to muscles like those?

EvanMcFly1985: Hey! Admins! We got a couple of Robloxian ODers here!

PinkTheHottest9401: Shut up, nub! Can't you see me and my boyfriend are having a romantic moment?
ROBLOXian ODer by Spodermen2121 z February 21, 2017

Roblox ODer

ROBLOX Oders are retarded idiots who can't get a date irl so they date pixels in boys and girls dance club
Hey! you oders! stop having six with him! nasty 8 year old! you Roblox ODer!
Roblox ODer by e8ue July 23, 2018
"Online Dater". This means a person who dates over online games, considering they can't get a date off of the computer. If you call someone out on being an Online Dater, they get VERY defensive, and say you have no life.
Frajid3911: hey do u kno sexi_babi43

Satan Fire: ya y

Frajid3911: dats my gf olo

Satan Fire: rly she is hawt

Frajid3911: ya bro we ben gettin it on xd

Satan Fire: xD

Bobbyboy: ODing freaks...

Frajid3911: u kno wat shut up u lv 23 noob u hav no life

Satan Fire: ur gay bobbyboy suxx my dik

Bobbyboy: Hey, I'm not the one sexually attracted to a video game character. Being an ODer is the lowest of the low.

Frajid3911: FUK U!!!!!!!!!

Satan Fire: ya gay homo fag bicth
ODer by NotanODer June 2, 2011
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