Much like its sister term "Incel" it means an involuntary celibate but instead of choosing not to love others, they choose not to love themselves.
by Sudden Excrement August 17, 2021
When an incel laments about the object of their affection, or the opposite sex in general having no interest in them. Self pity but is incel in nature.
Incel: "I don't know why girls don't see me for the catch that I am! Nice guys like me always end up alone."
Pretty much everybody: "STFU! Nobody wants to hear your incelf pity!"
Pretty much everybody: "STFU! Nobody wants to hear your incelf pity!"
by Pace_Picante October 16, 2020