When a person has a particular fetish or fetishes and uses a partner/s or individual/s to get off sexually by fixating on that fetish and not the whole person/s. It is a selfish, one-way experience that serves the needs of the fetishist, while draining the dignity of the one that they are using to fulfill their desires. Example: object fetish (boots), body part fetish (feet), material fetish (smelly socks). These ones gets sexually aroused by that fetish. It can serve to replace the need for an emotional attachment to a person/partner. Essentially, they are treating their partner like a trash receptacle for their self-serving fetish desires.
After being with him/her/them for awhile, I realized they were only with me, to get off on their fetish fix. It made me feel like trash. At that moment, I realized I was being used like a fetish dumpster.
by Chastity Queen January 25, 2023