Dearly not queerly, a way for someone in the GLBT community to say they love someone as a friend, and no more.
I love you DNQ (dearly not queerly)
Acronym used in sf fandom for Do Not Quote; see DNP. Something given to you with a DNQ attached means the information is for your eyes only and is not even to be talked about to your best friends.
"I want you to consider this DNQ."