When you really want to ask someone a
question, mostly to find out the newest
gossip, but are too respectful of their privacy to ask.
For example, if your friend shares some
sweet goss and you really want to know more about it, but they're shy and not offering any unprompted information, and you really want to know more, but you decide not to ask, that's goshing.
"Oh, I'm goshing to hear about your 'good time' the other
night."
"You could really tell how much he was goshing to
ask me about you, but he didn't
say a word."