soft butch 

A lesbian who prefers to dress in a butch/masculine/androgynous way, but may have a more feminine attitude; considered the opposite of a “chapstick lesbian”

Person A: “Where do you fall on the futch scale?”
Person B: “I’m a soft butch.”

soft butch by lesbeans are valid February 10, 2018

Soft Butch 

A Soft Butch is a Butch Lesbian who presents herself as mostly masculine, but has some feminine traits.

Anastasia is a Soft butch. She'll buy most of her clothes from the Men's section and then spend hours on her makeup.

Soft Butch by Sweetmothersappho May 10, 2019

soft butch 

a female that is more masculine in additude,dresses like a man but still has a lil bit a (femme) in her.(Soft butch_ females don't want to be men but love dressing and acting like men.

hey! that girl is butchy but damn she hella pretty.

soft butch by MeL Perez January 29, 2004

soft butch 

A woman who looks butch and is the more courtly partner, yet is not rigid about her role.

She looks butch, but she loves to cook.

soft butch by Cisco October 18, 2003

soft butch 

a female that is more masculine in additude, but not so much in the way she looks

she acts butch, but doesnt look butch

soft butch by Michelle September 2, 2003

soft butch 

soft lesbian that is masculinity just super confusing

she is a soft butch

soft butch by lila buckinham February 12, 2021

soft butch 

incredibly stupid term that no lesbian should use

person 1: “yeah I’d say I’m a soft butch”

person 2: “what? there is literally no reason to call yourself that. just say you’re a butch.”

soft butch by beyonce’s lover June 7, 2025