n. 1) A person, often female, who is so shallow and spiritually
empty, so obsessed with appearance and minutia of life, so absent from the larger issues of human existence, that
she actually represents an existential
danger to those she comes into contact
with - specifically those she engages
in romantic relationships. At first, the vapula may feed off the soul of her victim, and become slightly more
intelligent, engaged in life, etc. But over time
she'll simply reduce her lover down to her own level, leaving him a shell of a human being, incapable of trusting, feeling
love, or mustering any strong emotion at all. At that
point, he has nothing else to offer her, and the vapula moves on.
2) my ex girlfriend.
Trish is such a vapula; she gets
a boyfriend, parrots his opinions until
they're used up and then dumps them.