1 definition by a married woman

A man who chases after women that have either been recently separated, or divorced.
A man that chases after a woman especially if he knows that her man is cheating on her.
A man that crashes at a woman's home to "make sure that she is okay" after she has been left or kicked her current spouse or partner out of that home.
You better not leave that girl or there will be tom cats at the door.
That dude is such a tom cat...see how he just crept up on that
by a married woman January 5, 2011
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