To put everything into something you have to except knowing there is a possibility it may not exist, ever come true or have real meaning but it helps.
You have to feel your void spaces for the unknown.
For example -Jesus
we put blind faith that he is real and so on and so forth
Opposite side- if you don't put faith in him your faith is usually in things like money, love, ext which already have there own spaces there for you become over whelmed when it comes to those things.
Solution- find what you want and put all your focus on that and remember you already have room in your life for everything else. Fate is how the blessing comes in you have to believe in your heart Jesus died for you sins, it's called example "you can't see oxygen but you believe you can breath"