who tries to put rules on what is romantically/sexually acceptable, usually complicating these things far more than needed, let alone
wanted realistically by any sane person
She seemed like a really nice girl at first
, but she kept asking me if I was to call her first
or she was to call me first
. She wouldn't even give me her number until
I gave her mine because she said
that "that's the way it works, isn't it?". Yugh, I hate bureauromantic people!