2 definitions by Iamgayaf3
A nonmale who’s romantically and sexually attracted to women. Could also be called gay, queer, sapphic, etc. They don’t owe you an explanation of how they know their sexuality. they don’t even have to tell you what they identify as if they aren’t comfortable. Also lesbians are overly fetishized. In case you didn’t know, homophobia is unacceptable; here is a list of homophobic statements:
“I’m ok with lesbians as long as they don’t show their relationship in front of the children”
“That’s so gay” (basically any jokes about being gay while being straight)
“Being gay is a trend”
“Gay people are already equal to straight people”
“Look all the skittles are pressed. Such snowflakes”
“Being gay is not natural”
“Conversion therapy is ok”
Remember when you hear things you aren’t used to, instead of hating immediately, educate yourself. We don’t need hate we need love. There is no problem with people loving each other. When you were born, you were born into a system where being cisgender, male, white and heterosexual is dominant and that’s not ok. we need a future of accepting, open minded, happy individuals.
P.S. systems we’re born into have wired
our brains in a way many can’t even imagine. Meaning we think in a certain way, even if we don’t realize it. society is constantly changing and slowly we’re breaking the systems. always remember you’re loved and 10000% worth it because life is hard; we just need to try our best and be happy, never forget that <3 👩 ❤️ 💋 👩
“I’m ok with lesbians as long as they don’t show their relationship in front of the children”
“That’s so gay” (basically any jokes about being gay while being straight)
“Being gay is a trend”
“Gay people are already equal to straight people”
“Look all the skittles are pressed. Such snowflakes”
“Being gay is not natural”
“Conversion therapy is ok”
Remember when you hear things you aren’t used to, instead of hating immediately, educate yourself. We don’t need hate we need love. There is no problem with people loving each other. When you were born, you were born into a system where being cisgender, male, white and heterosexual is dominant and that’s not ok. we need a future of accepting, open minded, happy individuals.
P.S. systems we’re born into have wired
our brains in a way many can’t even imagine. Meaning we think in a certain way, even if we don’t realize it. society is constantly changing and slowly we’re breaking the systems. always remember you’re loved and 10000% worth it because life is hard; we just need to try our best and be happy, never forget that <3 👩 ❤️ 💋 👩
I’m choose to identify as a lesbian. This is for me and no one else. I want to be with a woman and that’s ok.
by Iamgayaf3 June 23, 2021
A straight crush is when a queer person gets a crush on a person who’s straight. They could be your best friend, or even the person who made you realize your sexuality. Well in this case, this person happens to be straight.
And even though you fell SO HARD, you know they’ll never look you the way you look at them: with the unignorable desire to hold hands, maybe even kiss , but they just can’t look at you the same. It’s a feeling like no other. You thinking about them EVERY DAY for the past year. slipping from reality into your day dreams of what could’ve been if they weren’t “straight.” But of course, there’s always the hope that maybe they aren’t so “straight”… MAYBE they’ll eventually look at you and see a future. A future where you’ll give each other your hearts and melt your two worlds into one. Oh, what you’ll do to make them feel your love and return it. Because when i close my eyes I see your smile. I imagine your hand squeezing mine. I think of sitting on the gravel path with you in silence watching the sunset everyday day when I see it setting. Even tho sometimes I feel like maybe this isn’t love.. and drift my thoughts of you away… I’m always eventually reminded of how you’re the one who made me realize what love is supposed to feel like …and you’re the one I have true love for. And through it’s risky, and though I’ll risk my heart shattering to pieces, I can’t lose hope that I wasn’t imagining what I felt between us, and that “us” is not impossible.
And even though you fell SO HARD, you know they’ll never look you the way you look at them: with the unignorable desire to hold hands, maybe even kiss , but they just can’t look at you the same. It’s a feeling like no other. You thinking about them EVERY DAY for the past year. slipping from reality into your day dreams of what could’ve been if they weren’t “straight.” But of course, there’s always the hope that maybe they aren’t so “straight”… MAYBE they’ll eventually look at you and see a future. A future where you’ll give each other your hearts and melt your two worlds into one. Oh, what you’ll do to make them feel your love and return it. Because when i close my eyes I see your smile. I imagine your hand squeezing mine. I think of sitting on the gravel path with you in silence watching the sunset everyday day when I see it setting. Even tho sometimes I feel like maybe this isn’t love.. and drift my thoughts of you away… I’m always eventually reminded of how you’re the one who made me realize what love is supposed to feel like …and you’re the one I have true love for. And through it’s risky, and though I’ll risk my heart shattering to pieces, I can’t lose hope that I wasn’t imagining what I felt between us, and that “us” is not impossible.
Straight crush: a person you unwillingly fall for but willingly give your heart to
“Man. I have a ‘straight’ crush”
“Man. I have a ‘straight’ crush”
by Iamgayaf3 June 23, 2021