A tojer is someone whom is enthusiastic about the strange things in life. He/she will watch endless videos on live leak for example. They're often slightly overweight but have a big heart and great in bed.
Girl 1:"woah look at him"

Girl 2:"I wonder if he's a James or a Tojer"
Girl 3: "he's definitely a Tojer, he was amazing in bed and listened to my problems"
by Samuel l Fapson April 17, 2016
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