patroscending 

The exact boarder between patronizing and condescending, where the feign of patronizing kindness increases to the point that it is so apparent, that were it any more so, it would simply be condescending. The balancing point upon which this word may appropriately be used is often determinable only by intonation and accompanying visual clues.

Synonym: condenizing

A phrase possibly classifiable as patroscending - "your ability to instantly discern the meaning of the most contrived twords and chackronyms is amazballs covered in awesome sauce"

patroscending by carpe mañana March 8, 2014

proscending 

A younger person explaining to an older person in the way they understand (reverse condescending)

My aunt accused me of being proscending when I was explaining why my answer was correct.

proscending by doushitekonani August 10, 2018