A female derivative of nigga moment. The moment where an otherwise rational female--regardless of race, nationallity, or sexual orientation--has a lapse of logic, self-control, and overall dignity. Anything could trigger this moment, but usually an undeserving lover is involved.
Did you see Flavor Of Love last night? Girl, that was just one long heffa moment.
by Nita W. September 4, 2006
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