fem top

A feminine gay guy who plays the more dominant role in the relationship. Definitely the “pitcher” but looks like the “catcher”

Hey bottom! Giiiiiirl I done told you I was a fem top!

by ShearLove November 6, 2018

Fem top

A feminine gay dude or lesbian that tops

Not straight person, masc: yo I could top you

Also not straight person that's fem: naw I'm a fem top

by WhatAmISamIAm May 18, 2020