A feminine gay guy who plays the more dominant role in the relationship. Definitely the “pitcher” but looks like the “catcher
Hey bottom! Giiiiiirl I done told you I was a fem top!
by ShearLove November 6, 2018
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A feminine gay dude or lesbian that tops
Not straight person, masc: yo I could top you

Also not straight person that's fem: naw I'm a fem top
by WhatAmISamIAm May 18, 2020
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