To act of advising your spouse or significant other about an event in which you wish to participate in that may be frowned upon. This person, "the chancellor" is able to veto the activity if and when they deem necessary, which is usually always.
"You wanna play cards with us tonight?"
"Yah, but I just have to check in with the chancellor first!"
by shadejack August 5, 2009
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