When someone says or does something towards you in a rude or threatening way
Ex.

Person: your stupid and ugly

You: whya are you coming at me like i did something to you
Person: just stfu you came at me first
You: it clearly shows that u came at me cuz u called me ugly and stupid like whats up. Do you wanna fight!?
by Anonymous speaker October 14, 2015
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