bow means no

Saying by female softball players, distinguishing a player’s sexual orientation by wearing a bow in their hair. If a player wears a bow, then the player is is heterosexual. If the player is without, then the player is into other women. This is a widely known colloquialism throughout the softball community, from high school to recreational leagues.

Lesbian 1: “She’s cute. What’s her name?”
Lesbian 2: “She’s not interested. See the bow in her hair? Bow means no.”

by Firpatch1 May 16, 2018