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Tu Es Fallacy

A fallacy where one dismisses an opponent's argument by making the opponent themselves the problem—"the issue is you," "you are the common denominator," "the problem is in you." Unlike ad hominem (which attacks character), Tu Es Fallacy focuses on the person as the source of all problems in the discussion, relationship, or situation. It's a move that shifts blame from the argument's content to the arguer's very existence in the conversation. "You are the common factor in all your failed relationships" (therefore your critique of this relationship is invalid). "You're the problem" (therefore nothing you say matters). The fallacy lies in using personhood as refutation—as if being the "common denominator" proves the argument wrong. It's psychological dismissal dressed as insight, therapy-speak as debate tactic.
"She pointed out patterns of behavior in the group. Response: 'You know, you're the common denominator in all these conflicts. Have you considered that the problem is you?' That's Tu Es Fallacy—dismissing her observations by making her the issue. Maybe she's right; maybe she's wrong. But making her the problem avoids addressing what she said. The argument disappears because the arguer becomes the pathology."
Tu Es Fallacy by Dumu The Void March 5, 2026
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Serial Monogamist 

Someone who jumps from one relationship immediately into another one.

Serial monogamists can not stand to be alone and often suffer from vast commitment and insecurity issues.

Because they jump into relationships immediately after the previous one has ended, serial monogamists typically don't take the time to reflect on their behavior or why their previous relationships failed; thus, they end up making the same relationship mistakes over and over again.
Person 1: Damn, Dustin already has a new girlfriend?! It's only been two weeks since he broke up with his fiance! I think he's a sociopath.

Person 2: No, he's a serial monogamist...
Word of the Day on June 22, 2026

liquid lunch 

A lunchbreak comprised entirely of alcoholic beverages, and no food.
"With all the lay-offs that morning, it was rough. I hit the bar around the corner for a liquid lunch mid-day."
liquid lunch by Alexandra July 27, 2004
Word of the Day on June 21, 2026
Dunzo, a slang word for done/finshed. Made famous by the Laguna Beach cast.
This car is so dunzo. (Kristin's car breaks down.)
dunzo by Joey Pellet December 8, 2004
Word of the Day on June 20, 2026

ankle biter

Someone or something that bites your ankles.
To a postman, an ankle biter is often known as a dog.
To an adult, an ankle biter may be a toddler.
To hikers, an ankle biter is sometimes a tick.
And so on.
"Dang ankle biter took off my whole leg!!"
ankle biter by the sane maniac February 2, 2004
Word of the Day on June 19, 2026

Male Pattern Blindness 

When a man will search for hours to find something that is laying out in the open on a table. Items are often easily found by a women.
Man: "I have been searching for hours for keys."
Woman: "You mean the ones sitting there on the coffee table?"
Man: "Where?"
Woman: "Right there in the middle of that table."
Man: "oh, must have been Male Pattern Blindness"
Male Pattern Blindness by diablo581 February 10, 2008
Word of the Day on June 18, 2026

Pretty Privilege

A person who has more opportunities, and becomes more successful in life because of how attractive they are.
"Pretty privilege isn't a thing." "Yes it is have you seen GeorgeNotFound"

"GeorgeNotFound has so much pretty privilege its not fair!!!"
Word of the Day on June 17, 2026