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That's Not It 

"That's not it" commonly used as "Das not it" refers to someone or something being so irrelevant and unpopular that it or they become not it.

Being not it means that you and your comments are so irrelevant that no matter what you say after you cannot come back to "it" status for a good 30 minutes at least. Unless you so not it that it's impossible, this happens a lot as well.

The complete opposite of "Dassit!" Which means of great acceptance and pleasure. You either "it" or "not it".
Guy one: "Had 2 Big Macs with Gustavo for lunch while listening to the new 2 Chainz song, DASSIT!"

Guy two: "NO boo boo, that's not it...bye..."

Guy one: "whatever hater"

Guy two: "bye Felicia, you not it #ratchet #thursty".
That's Not It by Vicamamanu13 May 20, 2014
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that’s not it sis 

Hunty what is u doin

Whole ass mess
Not the move

U good boo?
Wearing plaid with stripes, that’s not it sis

That’s not how it works 

You can’t just put RGB in a computer and be a better gamer, that’s not how it works. Yes it is

That's not what it's called

Stop doing that. Stop LETTING him do that. You people are fucking idiots. What the actual fuck is wrong with you?
Hym "That's not what it's called. That is not what is happening there. Your assertion is that HIS DERANGMENT... About how successful you are... Made HIS SON kill him... As opposed to something he was maybe doing to his son... Like, is that what happened to family in Wausau who were killed by their own son? The parents were ALSO so deranged by the outcome of the election that THEIR SON... Killed them. Do the kids love Trump so much that that have to KILL THEIR OWN PARENTS to defend him? Or is it probably something else? Like, the LIKELY... That it is MY THING... Is SO MUCH HIGHER... Than the likelihood that it's THAT... What the actual fuck is wrong with you?"

That's not why they did it 

How the fuck do you know, Piers? Is that why THEY SAID they did it or are you just projecting the motivation you would like them to have on them so you can smear what's his name?
Hym "That's not why they did it? That's YOUR OPINION Piers. Or you are desperate to scapegoat Tommy Robinson. Either or."

it's not that deep 

The situation at hand does not require such desperate actions or "stop being so dramatic"
Person A: I'm going to die if I don't get tickets to see one direction!
Person B: It's not that deep

it's not that kind of party 

When someone does something inappropriate or too extreme for that exact time or place.
person 1:"My fly is undone"...
person 2:"it's not that kind of party!"
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Frothability 

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pod person 

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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

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A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
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