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A person (in most cases a man) who acts rough and/or lustful in public, but when in sexual intercourse, is tender and caring. It can also be used vice versa.
At first I though John was going to pound me, but he turned out to be a total tenderbender
by Sir Anonymous the VII May 14, 2010
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Female who sleeps with multiple people while in relationships. Females who tends to have thottish tendencies.
“Aye bro you seen tyrone?” Yea my dude my boy down the street pipin some little “Tender Bender”.
by Whoreible Holly February 02, 2018
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