A South African term for a genuine stud - involved in sport, academic, works hard, plays hard, parties hard, pushes boundaries and is involved in his community by changing the world through random acts of kindness. He lives above the system, not a wannabe. Extreme!
Us loslappie's travel the country for concerts, sporting events, get involved in the offering, parties, chicks, etc... like to we hit the Klein Karoo for a canoe race, rocked with Prime Circle, owned the jol and shaved our heads for charity; leaving dreamers and taking memories...
Local Afrikaans singer Kurt Darren wrote a epitomising a loslappie!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"