a girl's first slow dance with a man, preferably a pirate, because a pirate is a real man. The man usually makes a few attempts a spinning the girl as well.
*the ideal song that would play during this occasion would be Dance with You by Live.
As she stood alone awkwardly on the dance floor, the pirate came up and asked to dance with her. Afterward her sisters were jealous that her first man dance was with a pirate.