The state of not having sex
(either as a virgin
or just for the time being), almost always against your will.
The official rules of getting some
versus getting nothing
are as follows:
1. Butt sex
2. Getting oral sex
: good enough to spoil your virginity, not enough to be impressive
3. Being on the other end of oral (without getting anything else) is almost the same, but just makes you seem desperate.