PAMS

An acronym for "Passive Asian Male Syndrome"

While PAMS does not apply to every asian male and can also apply to men of other ethnic groups, PAMS indicates a lack of initiative, particularly in romantic relationships.

PAMS can be a failure to approach, a failure to define the relationship, a failure to break up, etc
Girl 1: He asked me to hang out but didn't specify that it would be a date. what the heck?

Girl 2: Oh, must be PAMS

or

Girl 1: He stared at me the whole night but didn't approach me at all!
Girl 2: Wow, serious case of PAMS
by girlfromMission August 12, 2015
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