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Jaspered

To keep someone interested in you for the sole purpose of gaining validation and a boost to your ego.

The term comes from the character of Jasper from the movie The Holiday. He only keeps Kate Winslet in his life to feel good. Not because he wants her.

I thought she really liked me but it turns out I was just being jaspered.

by davenport101 June 20, 2021