Definitions by Q. D.
fuckman
Good on paper aka they seem to have their shit together because they have a job and the trappings of stability, however, they are emotionally stunted.
Usually say something like “this is why you shouldn’t date me” or “this is why I am not good to date,” and then proceed like they are building a serious relationship with you. Or they say “this is just for sex,” yet go through the process of courting you (e.g., taking you on dates, trying to impress you, trying to make themselves look like a good partner, hinting that there might be more than just physical because the attraction and connection is so strong), introducing you to people they know (even up to introducing you to their family members), building a common group of friends, and even taking you on double dates. Their words and actions are often out of alignment, yet they act surprised when you become emotionally attached or confused about the situation.
A fuckman is different than a fuckboi because they intentionally seek intimacy in the form of deep conversations, trauma sharing, intimate sex, cuddling, and other intimate activities. They are similar to a fuckboi in that they are seeking a physical and emotional receptacle to meet their needs without accepting the responsibility of maintaining it or taking any accountability for their actions, which they curate to give the impression of relationship potential. Usually passively controlling by being emotionally calculating and triangulating.
Usually say something like “this is why you shouldn’t date me” or “this is why I am not good to date,” and then proceed like they are building a serious relationship with you. Or they say “this is just for sex,” yet go through the process of courting you (e.g., taking you on dates, trying to impress you, trying to make themselves look like a good partner, hinting that there might be more than just physical because the attraction and connection is so strong), introducing you to people they know (even up to introducing you to their family members), building a common group of friends, and even taking you on double dates. Their words and actions are often out of alignment, yet they act surprised when you become emotionally attached or confused about the situation.
A fuckman is different than a fuckboi because they intentionally seek intimacy in the form of deep conversations, trauma sharing, intimate sex, cuddling, and other intimate activities. They are similar to a fuckboi in that they are seeking a physical and emotional receptacle to meet their needs without accepting the responsibility of maintaining it or taking any accountability for their actions, which they curate to give the impression of relationship potential. Usually passively controlling by being emotionally calculating and triangulating.