1 definition by Just fuck 'em and stop cryin'...be hard.

1. Violently gay music and or lifestyle.
2. Comitting acts such as vandalism in a very safe setting like tearing up your bedroom because your Dad never taught you how to live hard and be a man.
3. Letting a woman who hurts you cause you to scream, cry, act, and dress like a female vampire. See homo
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