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Second Boy

An adult male having an affair with a married woman. He is often married himself. He chooses a married woman because she has as much at stake as he does if caught/found out. This makes the woman he’s involved which makes her “trustworthy” in his estimation. He is avoidant of responsibility and emotionally too immature to end or work to enhance his marriage. He doesn’t want to leave the marriage because it provides social currency that implies honor, respect, and integrity of a “Family Man,” but he’s really too childlike, foolish, cowardly, and entitled to be a man and behave with the dig out of the title” man.”. Thus the second descriptor- “Boy”
She’s hooking up for another bootie call with her Second Boy.

Her second boy is kind of hot but clueless.

Keep your second boy under wraps.
Second Boy by Inconvenient August 7, 2026