The act of attempting to lure a member of the opposite sex through online flirting (winking) to observe oneself masterbating (wanking) on a public webcam. While conceivably possible for both males and females, this typically refers to men in chat rooms who, being unable to touch a vagina through normal channels, beg, bargain, and plead with women to watch them jerk off. The worst fear (and incidentally most likely outcome) of wink wankers is to be observed by gay men due to latent homophobia and small reserves of self confidence.
69U_know_u_wantthis69: show for the ladies here, no dudes! hey ginger, what's your ychat????
|x|Ginger|x|: read the rules, asshole! no wink wanking in here!!!
You say 'Wink Wank' after you say something flirtatious and cheeky or after a joke ...
*Chick stands in-front of Guy and blocks view*
Guy: Its not like I wanted to watch the game but oh well I don't mind the new view, wink wank ;)
Chick: Ohhh my *blushes*
Friend 1: *Writes on Friend 2's wall* So how was your fall? bahahaha Wink wank x) ...
Friend 2: *Responses to wall post* Shut up it hurt like hell!! x(