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1.
Sex where the girl's arms and legs are spread as far apart as possible, like a starfish. Legs open wide, arms out, and a very bored look on her face as she rools her eyes and waits for the guy to be done.
While he thought they were having makeup sex, in her mind she had basicly surrendered to giving him silent angry starfish sex.

I don't care if all I get outta her is starfish sex. She ain't nothin' but a bang piece anyway.
by Mr. Corruption June 21, 2005
 
2.
To have sex with arms and legs spread open... and stare lovingly at your significant other, like a starfish
Hey babe wanna have starfish sex?
by Kim Chee 1234 January 18, 2009