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2.
The effort one must put in to make one's spouse happy focused on not coming home drunk, not spending all one's money at the strip club or adult book store and not engaging in extra marital fun.
I did not want to get divorced and have her take all my money so I gave her a soule shocker
by Tim Smith October 07, 2005
 
1.
4 fingers in the pink, 1 in the stink, first heard in Soule Hall, a boys dorm at Phillips Exeter Academy in NH
This boy tried to give me a soule shocker...those sketchy soule boys.
by blah March 21, 2005