soft bend Share definition Flag A soft lay when one or both parties are uninterested in having sex and are just bored. Tara had nothing better to do so she gave Dwayne a soft bend to pass the time and make it easier to fall asleep. soft bend by Dablister August 2, 2022 0 0 Get merch Get the soft bend mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch
