It means something similar to the traditional term saddened, but the cause of the state is specifically due to a
miserable sod passing their misery to the soddened
individual by some various means. Most often soddening occurs to those who love the sod or need something from the sod, to those who don't expect their beloved sod would choose to hurt them, and are made sick with the sodness of betrayal and abandonment by the unhappy sod.
The condition may be temporary. Sometimes those who experience it wise up. Other times healing takes place between sod and saddened.
Unfortunately, often the soddened make a habit of falling prey to this condition.
This can happen to anybody, lovers, friends, or kids of miserable sods.
Her: What happened to Joelle? She is not herself
these days.
Gossip monger: haven't
you heard? Bruce just was being Bruce, and he's an unhappy ol sod, but she took it
personally, and now she's totally soddened.
Her: Sucks to be her...
Bruce: (who happens to be walking by) Sucks to be me! Nobody cares how I was soddened!
Her: I thought Joelle cared...
