playing bell 

When a girl says they are interested in you, but aren't ready, and makes you wait a few months. At the end of the few months they decide that you are more of a friend than a dating object.

"I was sure we would be dating by now but I think she might be playing Bell"
"She said she wasn't ready 2 months ago... I think she is playing Bell"
"It's like I got friendzoned but instead... I think she is playing Bell

playing bell by phantom373 May 30, 2013

Playing the Bellhop 

Putting up with someone's baggage - dealing with someone's issues. Generally from previous relationships or neurotic behaviors

She sounds like a great chick, bro - you just have to decide if she's worth playing the bellhop.

Playing the Bellhop by Yankee McYankster December 3, 2011