planbush

N (and v.). The act of a significant other or friend "making plans for us you" without consultation or advisement and thus confronting you with a complete surprise when you are informed of "your" plans.

Ex.

Spouse: Hey honey, are you ready to go to dinner, Sue and Ralph are expecting us at 7?

You: What!? This is the first I've heard of this... we didn't even discuss this. How dare you planbush me like this?!