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one who, despite having everything, insists he has nothing, and then relies upon that insistance to rationalize his general resentment and misanthropy. within oafer circles, this is known as "patriotism". synonymous with oather.
"he says he loves america, but he hates all americans. he must surely be an oafer."
by KEvronista October 23, 2011