1. A cake smaller than a cupcake. A mini-cake. One that is unable to provide for a family of four, as well as their illegitimate children.
2. Another description of two African-American individuals fornicating, thereby producing a stacked "cake", of sorts.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.