a term used to describe a person, typically male, that keeps his/her personal life very private and therefore cannot be identified as 'straight' or 'gay’ because he/she exhibits signs of both lifestyles.
1. After the tabloid magazines claimed Kevin Spacey was gay, his protected private life only further convinced everyone that the rumors were true.
2. Max is a total Kevin Spacey; His favorite movie is Die Hard but he shops at the Gap.
3. My brother is always cuddling with that hot chick Ashley, but when I bring it up he rolls his eyes and claims they are best friends.