Jane: I hate you!( Thinking to herself, god I love this man.)
Usage outside a relationship, however, can have some positive effects. For instance, an annoying individual who hangs around you against your choice could be the receiving end of "I Hate You", and then likely find another individual to bother.
Wife: ... isn't that you?
Man: ... Oh, right.
Wife: I WANT A DIVORCE D<
Girl: I know, i hate you to, lets get married.
Jared: awww whyy?? =(
Carol thinks: i could never hate you, i just hate that i cant tell you i love you!
Carol: hate=love, ihy=ily
Jared: hate cant equal love!
Carol: it does when i say it to you...