1. A state of being, entertaining at first but less desireable afterwords.
2. The result of excessive roxoring.
'where were you last night?' 'I was getting totally hochayed'
To be left out in the cold, nearly or fully nude behind a dumpster of a Vietnamese restaurant/crackhouse after being brutally raped by a man (or hermaphrodite) in either an alien or cartoon bear costume on a Thursday after 8:00 PM. (Or any situation with similar consequences.)
Dude! That Math 99 test was so hard I felt like I got hochayed!