Man 1: Hey man, there's this girl at church and she seems to prefer talking to the girl beside her instead of across the table at me!
Man 2: She's guy shy man. She's not into commitment yet....she's probably too busy with family stuff and she's filled up her whole schedule with responsibilities and college. (Description of a real girl I know).
Man 1: I Guess I'll just try to ask her out when her and I are having fun or working on something! I'll persevere!
Man 2: More power to ya man.