anyone, typically over 40, dressing in an unsuitably “hip” young fashion, embodying a “Jersy Shore” meets “MMA” style, totally oblivious to how ridiculous and unhip they actually appear; anyone over the age of twelve wearing Ed Hardy. See Simon on “The Real Housewives of New York City” and Jon Gosling.
by firwinca July 10, 2011
A different definition than the goth/raver hybrid.
A secret act carried out that is so embarrassing or awful that you will die before telling anyone what you did...even your closest friends.
This usually falls under the whole, "It sounded like a good idea at the time" deal. Luckily, there are no witnesses.
Destroying something by accident, the biggest lie one would ever tell or a sexual escapade that would bring down the furious wrath and ridicule of one's friends. Forever.
A secret act carried out that is so embarrassing or awful that you will die before telling anyone what you did...even your closest friends.
This usually falls under the whole, "It sounded like a good idea at the time" deal. Luckily, there are no witnesses.
Destroying something by accident, the biggest lie one would ever tell or a sexual escapade that would bring down the furious wrath and ridicule of one's friends. Forever.
I will never speak of my sex-fest I had with the siamese twin midget transexuals I met at the circus. Although I enjoyed it, I'm keeping this story as a graver.
by beautifulbastard August 3, 2009
Those who feel some affinity to the goth scene but who also like dance music (techno, trance etc... Can be found at the more underground parties, normally waving glowsticks around wearing mainly black with UV colours. Comes from mixing the words goth and raver.
by immiscibility July 28, 2005
by CeCoMacino April 16, 2010
Person of 40+ age that can still go out, have it like it's still the summer of love, afterparty after the party and still hold a fuckin job down.
by The bongolist April 19, 2020
Trendy Goths who decide they like techno. Either for emotional reasons or cool points. Sometimes they may attend an occasional rave, but they will never be seen raving. They are the ones wearing black fishnet and sitting in the corner grimacing with their imaginary juggalo friends.
by Colleen. July 15, 2004
Affectionate insult for those found slumped, as though lifeless, in the dark corners of heaving parties who clearly timed their drop wrong or just don’t have the stamina to see it through to stupid o’clock in the morning.
“The gravers are stacking up... time for another bomb!”
“I was tripping over gravers on my way to the lavvy”
"shit dude is that graver a goner?"
“I was tripping over gravers on my way to the lavvy”
"shit dude is that graver a goner?"
by wronginthehead August 13, 2009