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a goth that is a raver also
kids with glo sticks at a goth club are gravers.
by stereocrumb May 19, 2005
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1 part goth, 1 part raver. You'll find one in the local "goth" club hepped up on crystal meth and water most likely dancing to EBM (E.B.M.).
Someone tell Aurora that candy jewlery doesn't go with fishnets. She's such a graver.
by gothrobot June 10, 2005
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The new type of goth music that seems to embrace all the mopeyness of regular goth music, but also adds the "thumpa thumpa"sounds of their raver cousins. Good examples of this music genre are Asembledge23 and VNV Nation.
"Damb graver music ruining a perfectly good night for stomping!"
by negativedreamers July 19, 2005
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anyone, typically over 40, dressing in an unsuitably “hip” young fashion, embodying a “Jersy Shore” meets “MMA” style, totally oblivious to how ridiculous and unhip they actually appear; anyone over the age of twelve wearing Ed Hardy. See Simon on “The Real Housewives of New York City” and Jon Gosling.
After my parents found the Ed Hardy outlet, they became total gravers!
by firwinca July 10, 2011
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Affectionate insult for those found slumped, as though lifeless, in the dark corners of heaving parties who clearly timed their drop wrong or just don’t have the stamina to see it through to stupid o’clock in the morning.
“The gravers are stacking up... time for another bomb!”

“I was tripping over gravers on my way to the lavvy”

"shit dude is that graver a goner?"
by wronginthehead August 13, 2009
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A different definition than the goth/raver hybrid.

A secret act carried out that is so embarrassing or awful that you will die before telling anyone what you did...even your closest friends.

This usually falls under the whole, "It sounded like a good idea at the time" deal. Luckily, there are no witnesses.

Destroying something by accident, the biggest lie one would ever tell or a sexual escapade that would bring down the furious wrath and ridicule of one's friends. Forever.
I will never speak of my sex-fest I had with the siamese twin midget transexuals I met at the circus. Although I enjoyed it, I'm keeping this story as a graver.
by beautifulbastard August 02, 2009
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