Essentially, it is a girl with internalized misogyny that is willing to turn against her own gender for the attention and approval of men. They ignore blatantly sexist behavior, even sometimes participating as to not seem unfunny or uncool. They also try their best to separate themselves from "other girls" because they see other girls as bad or basic compared to themselves, who are inherently special and therefore deserve male attention.
Guy: *makes sexist comment*
Girls: wow that's rude wtf
Pick me girl: lol, it's just a joke. Girls can't take jokes lololol!!! This is why I only hang out with guys, girls are too dramatic. *immediately checks to see if the male agrees with her*
by Starquti February 10, 2021
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A girl who seeks attention.
She will wait for drama to start and acting fragile/ brave.
If there's no drama, she'll make the drama.
She wants everyone to love her and think she's lovely.
She likes to make everything about her, and thinks it's all about her.
*The girl who's crying is a pick me girl*
Classmate 1: why is she crying?
Classmate 2: Someone said that her grandpa died last night and the one who's crying said it triggered her memory from her dad's death.
by ShRo69 December 21, 2021
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A pick me girl is a girl that thinks she better then everyone and is a hoe
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A girl who likes to shame other girls just so she can be like “one of the boys” they also like to copy all the things a boy she likes would like. Basically a person who thinks she is special when she’s not
Exp.1
Normal girl: yeah I don’t really like gaming

Pick me girl: really I love gaming! You’re so normal and basic.
Exp.2
Guy: Girls are so annoying
Pick me girl: YEAH AM I RIGHT AHAHA. IM SO FUNNY!
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A girl who believes that she is superior to other girls because she doesn’t conform to the social stereotypes. She makes fun of femininity and girly girls to gain male approval and affection. She thinks that the girly girls are jealous of her when they just want to be treated as a human.
Girly girl: I like this pop song

Pick me lady: That song is soooo basic! I only listen to rap, rock music and old songs. HAHAHA that song is girly. We are NOT the same!

She is right, pick me girls tears other women down whilst women are just trying to live their lives.
by GirlyLesbian June 16, 2021
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A term which barbies use to call girls even though they clearly want attention. A version of a bruh girl. A gal who thinks that girls are 'overly dramatic' and tends to hang out with guys. Kind of like a tom boy. Some kinds of pick me girls s!ut shames other girls to show off to boys. They call themselves quirky even though they do things that other people does and think they're special. Nobody likes them and nobody should. They simply belong in hell.
"I'm not like other girls" - Pick Me Girl

"Go back to the kitchen wh0r3" - Pick Me Girl

"I skateboard, am so quirky" - Pick Me Girl
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A slang term used to shame women for being different and not “normal” to society. Also used to shame women for having just guy friends because obviously that’s a bad thing now.
Example 1:
Jane: I only have guy friends because I have more in common with them and I’ve known them for years

Sandra: Omg you’re such a pick me girl

Example 2:
Jane: I don’t like makeup because it’s hard to use and take off

Sandra: Omg you’re a pick me girl

Example 3:

Jane: I want to try and play basketball, I’ve seen so many people do it on social media so I think it would be fun to try

Sandra: PICK ME GIRL
by Canadian Cringe February 14, 2021
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