Elery is another word for "ass-hole," most commonly heard in Northern Illinois. Being called an Elery is usually taken as an insult, you don't want to be called an Elery.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.